Finding Words
I went looking for words in someone else’s writing. I hadn’t anticipated finding words for my own story.
I went looking for words in someone else’s writing. I hadn’t anticipated finding words for my own story.
I thought I was simply deciding how to frame three pieces of Hungarian embroidery. I hadn’t anticipated what would emerge from the conversation.
I thought I was simply explaining my research to an ethics committee. Instead, I found myself understanding it in an entirely new way.
There are objects that quietly accompany us through whole chapters of our lives, collecting memories until the day comes when we have to let them go.
I love the unexpected tangents that emerge during counselling sessions—and the things I learn when conversations wander somewhere I never anticipated.
I have discovered two words that should never be used when describing the week ahead: “quiet” and “busy”. Apparently, both are invitations for the universe to prove me wrong.
Home is sometimes less a place than a feeling. On a warm summer’s day in Hungary, I found both through the lens of a phone.
Grief does not end with time. It becomes a ritual—a quiet returning to those we continue to love.
Perhaps the stories we inherit are not carried forward word for word, but in the feelings, images, and truths that remain long after the details have been forgotten.
When the person being cared for says what they need — and is not heard.